—I love Karen.But does she complete me?
—Taneisha,nobody completes anybody.That’s not a real thing.If you’re lucky enough to find someone you can halfway tolerate,sink your nails in and dont’t let go,no matter what.
—So,what,I should just settle?
—Yes,thank you,exactly.Settle.Because otherwise you’re just gonna get older,and harder,and more alone.And you’re gonna do everything you can to fill that hole,with friends,and your career,and meaningless sex,but the hole doesn’t get filled.One day,you’re gonna look around and you’re going to realize that everybody loves you,but nobody likes you.And that is the loneliest feeling in the world.
—我很爱凯伦,但是她是否让我完整呢?
—塔妮莎,没人能让谁完整,这种事情不存在,如果有幸遇到能凑合忍得了的人,就用尽全力抓紧,无论如何都不要放手.
—所以我应该将就吗?
—没错,说得对,就是将就。因为不将就的话,你会一点点变老,生活会变得更艰难,你会更孤单。你会想方设法要填补内心的空虚——用朋友、用事业、用毫无意义的性爱,但是内心的空虚却依然还在。直到有一天,你看着自己的周围,发现大家都爱你,却没人喜欢你,那将是这世上最孤单的感觉。
《马男波杰克第三季》